Soms kan een uitspraak of songtekst je helpen
"Het is minder erg iemand door dood te verliezen dan door ontrouw.
De dood vernietigt alleen de toekomst; het verraad doodt ook het verleden."
(Johan Daisne)
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You don't even know the meaning of the words "I'm sorry"
You said you would love me until you die
And as far as I know you're still alive, baby
You don't even know the meaning of the words "I'm sorry"
I'm starting to believe it should be illegal to deceive a
woman's heart
(Shakira feat. Carlos Santana)
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Honesty
Sweet words whispered in the quiet of the soul.
Promises made and bonds melded.
Trust given and received.
Hearts openend and allowed to touch.
Were the words so false they could not withstand
the scrutiny of time?
Slender hopes dashed as another’s voice
echoes those thoughts once cherished as mine alone.
Betrayal?
Were the images false?
The dreams shared without knowledge?
Were there others in our play, on the stage, that
I could not see?
I hear another recite the lines I thought had been
written for me alone.
Did our hearts meet or was it just a game.
One played times before.
The quotes of things you said to me,
and my hopes are dashed against the reality of
what falls on my ear.
Where is the honesty in what existed.
Was it ours or was it shared with many?
Did my heart feel as one with yours while
yours was shared with others?
(bron)
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"Soon we must all face the choice between what is right and what is easy."
(Albus Dumbledore)
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"Good men don't walk away from their families"
(Unkown)
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"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."
(Tom Robbins)
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"You can be pleased with nothing when you are not pleased with yourself."
(Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (1689 - 1762))
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"If you marry a man who cheats on his wife, you'll be married to a man who cheats on his wife.”
(Ann Landers)
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"I read and walked for miles at night along the beach, writing bad blank verse and searching endlessly for someone wonderful who would step out of the darkness and change my life. It never crossed my mind that that person could be me."
(A. Quindlen)
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"No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry."
(Unknown)
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Look at my life
Look at my heart
I have seen them fall apart
Now I'm ready to rise again
Look at my hopes
Look at my dreams
I'm building bridges from these scenes
Now I'm ready to rise again
(Gabrielle)
De volledige songtekst van 'Rise' door Gabrielle staat
hier
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Letting go of the dream we create about a relationship--and about the future--is a whole lot harder than letting go of the person.
(Neil Rosenthal)
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"I may forget what you say, and I may forget what you did, but I will never forget how you made me feel."
(Maya Angelo)
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"The strength of a marriage is limited by the strength of its weakest partner."
(Unknown)
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If she wants a man
Who'll take the ring off of his hand
And then turn around and swear
That he'll be true . . .
Then she deserves you.
(Baillie & The Boys)
De volledige tekst van "She deserves you" staat
hier
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"The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity."
(Erich Fromm)
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"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us."
(Helen Adams Keller)
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"The only true failure is a failure to try."
(Unkown)
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"In my own experience, the period of greatest gain in knowledge and experience is the most difficult period in one's life. ...Through a difficult period, you can learn, you can develop inner strength, determination, and courage to face the problem. Who gives you this chance? Your enemy."
(His Holiness the Dalai Lama)
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"The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes."
(Marcel Proust)
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It's better to lose a lover
than to love a loser
(Unkown)
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"There seems to be a Crystal Clear Moment when we realize it's time to let them go.
The depth of our emotional sadness will never ever be captured with words;
it's a grief beyond literal expression."
(CZBZ)
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"Verlies leidt naar een andere vorm van leven"
(Elisabeth Kübler-Ross)
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"What happens to you isn't always within your control, but how you handle it is."
(Unkown)
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When a woman steals your man, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.
(Unknown)
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"A woman looking for a husband, has never been married."
(Unkown)
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"If you look at what you do not have in life, you don't have anything, If you look at what you have in life, you have everything."
(Tony Keith)
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"Don't just Go through it ..…. ..Grow through it"
(Unkown)
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"People generally see what they look for and hear what they listen for."
(Harper Lee)
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"Als je de waarheid over jezelf niet vertelt, kun je die over anderen ook niet vertellen."
(Virginia Woolf)
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" And, if one dream should fall and break, never be afraid to pick up the pieces and try again,,,
('Flavia and the Dream Maker')
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